From A Friend

Residents of Clovis NM 

And Nearby Cities or States

If you meet a semi short woman named “Krista Nelson Speck”
Be aware the terrible tale of her,
She will act helpless, cry a lot, and might ask for a place to stay, and is a very heavy smoker.
Also tries to play mind games and acts as if your hurting her when all your doing is asking via text or in person if she is alright. She does anything and everything to act a victim when texting. In person she tries to hide it and acts kind then upset or angry like a child.
Has a huge history of drug abuse.

Don’t get me wrong, sounds terrible just typing it. I have high functioning aspergers. So all of my senses are heightened, smell, taste, hearing ect. At the time that I met her, I did not smell anything bad coming from her except for the fact that she smokes and needed a shower. I got to know her a little over the course of 5 visits as her birthday (which she is 15+ years older then me), and friendly hello from on the bus, and as a neighbor with food and conversation. And pardon, do not get your mind in the gutter. We are both females and I am very much straight. I had let her stay as a guest at my home that I returned to, initially agreeing that she could stay for only 3 or 4 months tops, and I had sadly given her my word that I would let her stay till she had her stomach surgery that was coming up soon. She had moved in on February 5th, 2017

Before she moved in she knew,
-that my dog had had pups
-that I am disabled
-that if she stayed she is not allowed to smoke inside the house (that includes the garage and basement) or near the house and that if she did smoke she has to close all the windows before she does (wind changes) because I am extremely allergic and have a bad asthma attack around smokers.
-she could only stay if she had my fathers permission and my own permission
-and that 3 to 4 months was the limit to how long she could stay, because shady companies have my families lands stuck in the courts (since my grandparents died somewhere around/near 2007-8or9) as they are trying to steel my families lands since my grandparents passed away and that the shady companies will try to get us kicked out/drag us out of our own homes at any time.
- that the front and back house (my families homes) were considered a safe house, meaning that we have to know ahead of time if she has someone come over and we have to meet them before they do, and that we have to know when she leaves and how long she will be gone. So we know that the people coming or going are not thieves (as we have had happen before) druggies (as we have had to chase off before) or were spies or squatters trying to get onto the property (as we have had happen before because of the shady companies/banks and old friends of my mothers sisters children’s friends trying to pull a bunch of crap) ect.
-that I and my father live in two different houses. The front house and the two story back house. Not an apartment. And we’re not allowed sell a room out for rent.
-that we have a right to defend each other and our property.
-that under no conditions were she allowed to mistreat our animals.
- that I have ebt food stamps and am by law not allowed to let her eat anything I buy.
- that I will give her a space in my fridge and pantry for her to put her food.
- that I only had one toilet working but both showers in the two bathrooms worked because the back house had been shut down for nearly 2 years (while I was renting in town) and some of the seals on the sinks hot and cold valves might leak a bit or need replacing.
- that if anything needed to be fixed we will try to fix it. (with no time frame for getting it fixed) as this is someone’s home not a renting facility. Since we are both disabled, we do not know when we can fix the problem.
-No boys allowed to stay the night, if she wanted to have sex with someone go to a different place. Not our home, a safe house.
{Most of this is common courtesy and common sense.

She had sworn before she moved in,
-that she would help me clean the house and help with the day to day stuff,
-and she had said she wanted to thank us somehow for letting her stay, so she agreed to help pay a part of the Electric bill while she stayed.
- that she understood and would keep our conditions.

She had not told me,
- that she was on several different Psychotic/Psychological meds and several pain meds all the time.
- that she has no self control
- that she has very poor eyesight.
- that she is terrified of dogs. (she had told me that she likes dogs but it wasn’t till the 2nd or 3rd month did she tell me she was actually terrified of them because she gotten bit by one before)
- that she is a diabetic (refused to admit it even though she had to take the medicine)
- had two personalities/split which was the reason for the Psychotic meds.
- is prone to depression

She had lied a lot,
-As soon as she moved in, in person she said she will only help with the initial clean and the rest would be up to me. No help from her. That she never promised it. (also a lie and I have a witness) And that her paperwork for the ebt got screwed up so she didn’t have any money for food. (took her till march to get it back so 1 month)

The 1st month February 2017 she stayed,
- I taught her the best ways to interact with my dogs.
-she ate my 6 months emergency food and that months groceries, in 1 month (literally).
-did not pay for electricity.
- normal barking from my dogs for a new person, then an odd bark on occasion from them near the end of the month. (They bark at people who take Psychotic/Psychological meds, and at people who are Psychologically unstable.) I asked and then she told me that she was on Psychotic meds.
-almost always saw her outside smoking all day or she was in her room sleeping.
- made large meals so there was extras and she was treated as a guest.

The 2nd month March,
- paid 200 for electricity (now considered not as a guest but a roommate)
- When I told her I could not pay for her groceries at all, and she asked why, and I spoke of the list of all the food she had eaten, (including 6 two pound jars of peanut butter, 7 jars of jam, 2 large cans of powdered Gatorade, 4 containers of powdered drinks, ect.) she threw a hissy fit and quickly went to her room and closed the door saying she never ate those things. Ignoring me for a few days. (reminded me of a spoiled child).
- later she came out and said sorry for her behavior and that she was just angry at herself for all of that. She then swore that she would either pay me back for the food or replace the items she had eaten. (she also did not keep her promise in this)
- I was right there outside the bedroom door about to knock on it to see if she was hungry, when I heard that she was on the phone talking to one of her doctors saying she was sick to her stomach, (when I knew she was perfectly fine, and that her stomach had settled the day before, and that she just didn’t want to get off her bed) they had the date to her stomach surgery moved to July 12th 2017. She was also told she has to quite smoking before the surgery.
-noticed she tended to stay in her room (all the time) I knew it might be normal for the first month but as it drew into the second, (she was not a gamer), that’s when I knew something didn’t feel right.
- she had a few moments where she acted like an adult, but the rest she acted like a child or teen that got upset if something didn’t go her way.
- tends to talk about drama or cause drama. Parent issues and missing her own two kids that had been given away because she had gotten ill when she was younger.
-There was something terribly wrong, as every time she came out of her room I had prepared for her, my dogs acted like she was an intruder in the house. Even cornering her in the kitchen. I had asked her if she had done anything to them and she replied that she hadn’t and asked for me to get them back away from her and calm them. As she was freaking out a little. I helped her calm down and get to know and understand my dogs better.
- She started to almost quite smoking but as soon as she got stressed or wanted one she quickly went to get one.

3rd Month April,
-She helped pay 200 for electric.
- From there on it went down hill for my dad and I. One of our family dogs, Bear had to be put to sleep because of cancer.
- Had to work with Krista more on how to interact with a person and their personal dogs that know how and what to do with intruders. As flailing arms or really quick movements is a huge no till they get to know you.
-A week after her phone call, basically going into the 3rd month, she told my father and I about the surgery date being moved. As she talked about being poor and going back onto the streets because she didn’t have enough money saved up for an apartment. As she was also frustrated with the fact that she didn’t get paid leave for her part time job as she said she didn‘t have another client to clean their house. (At this point I thought it odd. Since she gets more money then I do from disability and did not have to pay rent, she could easily save up $1,700 in 3 months.) She then told us that she was also trying to pay off her debts first.
-As I had given her my word, she could stay till her surgery. We warned her though that we were unsure how the courts would go. So dad and I talked and gave her a final date, no later then September would she be allowed to stay. Because by then, after her surgery it may be too cold and difficult for her to move during winter months, and that it gave her at least 1 month of healing for after her surgery and another month to get safely her things together with our help and/or her friends. Which ever worked. As she looked like she wanted to complain and try to get us to fall for a sob story. My father and I made it clear that we will not tolerate psychological games and sob stories will not work with us. As I had not agreed to let her stay because of a sob story. She had told me her situation and asked if she could stay for 2 or 3 months. And my dad and I had agreed upon 3 to 4 months. And she had broken her word and made it longer.
- Was startled awake around midnight at my dogs vicious growl and the others quick barking and growling. Found out that Krista was trying to go through the house to go to the only toilet that worked (which was in the master bathroom connected to the master bedroom that I slept in.) She had shrieked, and immediately gotten cornered by the dogs, nearly getting bit. Asked her what in the world was she doing differently and she told me she was trying to sneak past the dogs and not wake them or me up so she could use the restroom/bathroom/lou (which ever word works) (As I had told her before it wasn’t a good idea to try to be as quiet as possible when going around sleeping dogs.) I told her that she should never try to sneak past sleeping dogs through a house at night. To go ahead and walk normally and make a little noise and turn on a light or two. To not worry and go ahead and be herself. But to never sneak around as if you were going to steal something. That would alert the dogs more then normal almost to the point of attacking. My main dogs Crescent and Farrow especially, because they have protected me in town at least 4 known times and possibly 10 other unknown times as I have found my broken front door knob, someone had tried to go through a window while I was about to take a shower, I have come back and found defensive knife cut marks on my dogs (when I was gone 1 week and my mother was watching them, was really pissed the landlords repairmen had tried to show up also without calling while I was gone when they already knew I had dogs and they left a letter.), poison left at the edge of the fence, blood on the fence, ect, when I was renting in town because their were a lot of terrible kids, smokers, and druggies that walked by. My dogs have learned how to identify anyone unstable mentally and anyone who does drugs they will bark off, defend me themselves, or the property, and corner any intruder. Even notify me if the person physically needs help, is ill, or disabled. It calmed her down but she still seemed upset and angry even that she nearly got bit.
- Found and heard her on several other occasions sneaking through the house and each time at least one or both of my dogs and even their puppies woke me up.
- By the end of month 3 from there on out it was sleepless nights because she slept during the day and sometimes pissed 15 times (yes I counted because I was woken up each time) at night. (having to go through my room I was sleeping in to get to the bathroom) As she drank too much tea, soda, Gatorade, and coffee (rarely water) and didn’t want to keep a schedule on top of all her meds. I tried to help her with that. Teaching her how to cook a few things.
- It was 2 weeks before I knew of her surgery date that I was invited to go on a trip to see my eldest sister that I hadn’t seen in a year or two, to actually see her on her birthday July 10th in Spokane Washington. I agreed to go and would be gone for that 1 week. I had asked Krista ahead of time and asked if she would be able to let my dogs out while I was gone and that my father would be able to help with them and that she wouldn‘t have to worry about it when she got her surgery done that same week. She said she would do what she could while I was gone.
- By this time Krista has had several different people come and go to the house. On several times she did not warn me or my father, so we got on the defensive and my dad had a rifle pointed at the truck as I called Krista if she was okay, and armed myself. Even got the dogs ready. Took a bit of talking with her after she told us it was a friend, to remind her that it was a safe house. She also got frustrated then, even complained a couple of times over the past few months that it was a safe house.
- On several occasions she didn’t smell right like she was smoking something other then tobacco. Made my skin break out, and made me feel on edge. (even though she was over her druggie years and trying to stay and keep clean for her kids she had given away, there is a saying once a druggie always a druggie, especially if their friends act or look like they might be one)

4th month May,
- Talking to her became more difficult as she did nothing but stress out, snap, cry at the smallest of questions.
- paid 150 for electric
- acted off and hormonal, she got a vapor cigarette to try to stop smoking.
- for the first time since she was there, dad and I got to sit outside on the front porch with the pups out and for some reason they flinched and cowed from dad and I when we went to pet them. I started to pay even closer attention to what Krista was doing near my dogs. Since she was always in her room and seemed to avoid me and only come out when I wasn‘t out in the living room or house, that made it difficult.
- Found her telling her friends to drive their cars down the back road and park it there then to come back by foot to her room. She was trying to train our stray outdoor dog, Duke to stop barking and following her friends and friends cars alone as if they were druggies sneaking around. Quickly told her to stop it and “Don’t you dare try to teach him that as if your friends are druggies sneaking around.” literally told her that. She said sorry, but I wasn’t sure how long she had been doing that because from the looks of it she had been training him from the beginning or at least for the last month. Poor Duke started to get aggressive with any strangers or people she brought over. (bad sign if anyone that you let stay at your house tries to train your dog while they are staying there; get them out of your house immediately.)
- She started to complain a lot and said I was mean.

5th month June,
- did not help with electric
- Krista started to act as if she had a night life, sleeping all day and smoking and staying up all night. Even inviting friends over at night. As I had notified my dad when I had seen one of her friends drive up from the back road a month before. We immediately had to tell her she was not allowed to invite people over at night. The curfew was as soon as it got dark. Reminding her again that it was a safe house. And that we even got a few phone calls from the police and neighbors on suspicion of her being a druggie. She threw another fit but complied.

6th month July,
-did not help with electric
- She worried about her surgery date and started freaking out the closer it got to that week. Krista even got angry and threw a fit by starting complaining about what she wanted/needed. ‘How could I leave her there when she was supposed to have a surgery? How can you do this to me? Your cruel. Ect.‘ And she ignored me for a while then said sorry. At this point I was wary of letting her interact with my dogs at all as she was unreliable, a liar that could not keep her word, had caught her on three occasions raising her hand to my dogs and I warned her, and she apparently seriously unstable. That is why I had made sure to get the okay that my dad could watch them while I‘m gone. As I did not wish to ask my mother because I do not trust her with my animals as she has gotten rid of them/sold them/ in the past without permission when ever I am gone for any amount of time.
- Before her surgery date July 12th,2017 and my leave she smoked more then when she first arrived, several packs a day. Saying “I want to smoke as many as I can before I can’t.” She was still smoking when I left to possibly see my sister for the last time or the last chance in the next 10 years.
-After her surgery and my return, I found the house a total mess. Apparently Krista, as soon as a day or two that I left she had bailed out on me and the dogs. Quickly leaving to her friends and waited to get a ride to her surgery, even after her surgery, and she staid at her friends house till a couple of days after my return. And while I was gone my mother had showed up without telling me and cleaned off the front porch and threw away important tools (just because they were dirty) that had been hidden under the bags that were holding the fence up. Since I still needed to get more wood to finish it. The day I came back from seeing my eldest sister, was the day I swore I would not let Krista be alone with my dogs, and I could not trust her anymore.
- Krista boasted how she got to smoke before the surgery and how she failed the blood tests before the surgery and how she was told she kept bleeding out during her surgery, and how she got to smoke after her surgery.
- I kept count, the entire time she was here, she only did the dishes 4 times and complained several times about how their was always dirty dishes in the sink. Since I had stopped washing her dishes after the 2nd month since she ignored me asking for her to do them, the sink was always full.
- Krista started complaining more, saying I was cruel to her, a jerk ect. Always saying “I didn’t do anything wrong! Thanx for messing up the whole rest of the day with your crappy attitude at me. And you wonder why I don’t wanna come out.”
-Krista was acting more paranoid, she told me it was because around this time of year she always does because of a rape that happened to her nearly 5 or 10 years ago.

7th month August,
- did not help with electric
- one of my dogs pups went missing on the 6th, 2017, as they broke out of the screen covering the windows. The land is broken down into 4 sections the lake, the barn, the back and front house with the green houses, and then the lot with the baseball fence. When she asked if she could help I told her this, and that the best way to find her was to split up and search those sections. She just followed me…. Instead of going to one of those sections as suggested.
-near the middle and end of the month after the week of searching and being ignored, Krista got way worse verbally, and tried to invite friends over to try to make me look more like a ‘bad guy’ in front of them.
- Literally avoided me at all costs when trying to get me to snap at her didn’t work, and then she started staying at her friends house all the time.
- One minute she would curse me out and say the worst things, and then a couple of hours or a few days later she acted like nothing happened. And she had an odd scent on her that still didn’t fell right. (she told me she had said no such thing when I asked, then she would go to her room and start texting “I deal with enough of my own emotional crap daily and staying out of depression and don’t need you bullying me on stuff.” “if you can’t come and talk to me and talk in a nice way then don’t talk to me at all ok” “You act so controlling and mean the way you come at me and its messed up!” ‘Your cruel and mean to me.’) At this point dad and I are beginning to shake our heads and look solemnly towards the small lake as it’s too obvious that she’s doing other drugs she’s not supposed to. And there is nothing we can do about it.
- Near the end of the month she confessed that she has started to forget things. And as to put a bunch of sticky notes around her.

8th month September,
- did not help with electric
- Krista rarely ever came to the house now. She has tried several psychological bs on me via text and verbal now. Starting to treat me like a landlord instead of a roommate. Getting snippy and then leaving to her friends. Demanding that I talk to her in her room or through her door. I told her it is not proper etiquette with the subject and that I was raised not to. Since we lived in a house. ‘not a rental apartment.’ That it takes both of us to work together. Couple of days later…. It seems she just doesn’t remember what she is saying to me. Very worrisome. My dad even noticed to when ever she went up to smoke with him.
- September 17th, 2017 I have gotten no word from her as she had left several days ago to her friends and seems to have forgotten about her cat needing food and water so I made sure he had some. After her being so cruel verbally like that then going to the texting with all of the aghast indignant complaints from her. I thought she still might not return for a few more days. And then I saw an unfamiliar truck at 11:12am show up driving to the back of the house. I quickly texted her as I was in no mood for her psychological crap and wanted to warn her “You might want to tell me when you’re back. Otherwise I will call the police on that truck for trespassing. It is a safe house.” her reply, “I let your dad know. I’m not dealing with this shit and u that’s why I’m moving out. And I been a tenant since February. And maybe they should look in your house when the police come. We will be back to get the rest and your dad knows.” My text back, “A tenant is someone who’s renting. You never paid rent. Why are you lying?“ I went outside to ask if she was alright and to meet who ever it was that pulled up. And I went to ask her why did she send that text about the police. She proceeded to grab what ever she could and went to the truck and verbally threatened my family to get us dragged out of our homes for no reason besides the floor needing a cleaning. ??? Right with her friend standing in the middle of the room she used to be in. She never answered my question and refused to go into the house. That was her moving out. So I went to get some of her food, her favorite coffee, and was able to grab her box of diabetes needles and gave them too her. Was able to get a couple more for her. But then she was gone. Came back for the second trip and grabbed her cat. And didn’t see her again. She left a lot of trash around, and old used furniture I could not use because she was a smoker. I double checked to make sure she at least had her medicine, and found she forgot her diabetes medicine in the fridge. Literally texted, “You forgot your diabetes medicine. You told me you had to still take in once in the morning or afternoon, Krista that is important.” She never replied. Worried I even went to look onto face book for her face book and she had deleted it. Leaving her really old one that she didn’t use still there. So I was unable to tell her about her diabetes medicine. Over all I tried one last text the next day. Getting a bit worried that I thought it over some. She had seemed almost psychotic, and histrionic, kind of terrified. “Are you alright? Because before you left you had insulted me, told me to never talk to you again, accused me of many things I had not done, and threatened my family in text; then threatened my family in person with your friend there while trying to make me look like an abuser. And apparently you didn’t remember a single thing of it because you took your other medicines and have been forgetting many things over the past two weeks before you up and left and also left a bunch of items behind.” I received no reply.

Be aware,
If you do see or meet her, be cautious as she is not mentally stable, and would treat you kindly at first, then neglectfully, and verbally cruel.

Damages From Krista,
- 1 broken bronze Door knob,
- 1 metal & wooden chair,
- 1 broken expensive plate,
-16 broken bowls, 8 other large broken plates,9 small broken plates all from a matching set,
- 6 broken tall glasses from a 25$ set
- 1 broken 30$ round French casserole dish with glass lid that was my mothers and nearly 30 years old.
- 1 can opener
- broke the shower curtain hooks the 2nd month she was here and refused to say anything until I asked her what happened.
- Bent and partly broke my dryer machine because she kept slamming and putting a heavy basket full of laundry on top of it, now it makes a clank, clank sound when using it.
- Put tons of holes in the wall from a bobby pin by the sliding door in the bedroom she was in because she didn’t ask about putting a curtain and rod in. So there is at least 7 to 10 inches square with those holes in it.
- broke the metal frame around the sliding door in the bedroom she was in because she tried to hammer a nail through the metal frame. Now I have to replace it or some how glue the bent part back on.
- Left large gashes in the walls from moving her furniture around and hitting the walls.
- Left the bathroom in the hallway a disturbing yellow orange because she didn’t clean after herself.
- Left 25$ worth of trash outside and inside the bedroom she had been staying in. Including a ton of smoked cigarettes.
- Left out 2 large open drink containers full of used diabetes needles.
- Also left her diabetes medicine in the fridge.
- Left a bucket full of piss by the window in the bedroom she was in…
- Left me with a huge mess to clean up.
- and left my dogs very wary and partly aggressive of all strangers even a family friend of mine.